JUST A MOM?
A woman, renewing her driver's license at the County Clerk's office,
was asked by the woman recorder to state her occupation.
She hesitated, uncertain how to classify herself.
"What I mean is, " explained the recorder,
"do you have a job or are you just a ..?"
"Of course I have a job," snapped the woman.
"I'm a Mom."
"We don't list 'Mom' as an occupation,
'housewife' covers it,"
Said the recorder emphatically.
I forgot all about her story until one day I found myself
in the same situation, this time at our own Town Hall.
The Clerk was obviously a career woman, poised,
efficient, and possessed of a high sounding title like,
"Official Interrogator" or "Town Registrar."
"What is your occupation?" she probed.
What made me say it? I do not know.
The words simply popped out.
"I'm a Research Associate in the field of
Child Development and Human Relations."
The clerk paused, ball-point pen frozen in midair and
looked up as though she had not heard right.
I repeated the title slowly emphasizing the most significant words.
Then I stared with wonder as my pronouncement was written,
in bold, black ink on the official questionnaire.
"Might I ask," said the clerk with new interest,
"just what you do in your field?"
Coolly, without any trace of fluster in my voice,
I heard myself reply,
"I have a continuing program of research,
(what mother doesn't)
In the laboratory and in the field,
(normally I would have said indoors and out).
I'm working for my Masters, (first the Lord and then the whole family)
and already have four credits (all daughters).
Of course, the job is one of the most demanding in the humanities,
(any mother care to disagree?)
and I often work 14 hours a day, (24 is more like it).
But the job is more challenging than most run-of-the-mill careers
and the rewards are more of a satisfaction rather than just money."
There was an increasing note of respect in the clerk's voice as she
completed the form, stood up, and personally ushered me to the door.
As I drove into our driveway, buoyed up by my glamorous new career,
I was greeted by my lab assistants -- ages 13, 7, and 3.
Upstairs I could hear our new experimental model,
(a 6 month old baby) in the child development program,
testing out a new vocal pattern.
I felt I had scored a beat on bureaucracy!
And I had gone on the official records as someone more
distinguished and indispensable to mankind than "just another Mom."
Motherhood!
What a glorious career!
Especially when there's a title on the door.
I think this makes Grandmothers
"Senior Research associates in the field of Child Development and Human Relations"
And Great Grandmothers
"Executive Senior Research Associates?"
I also think it makes Aunts
"Associate Research Assistants."
And other friends you know.
May your troubles be less,
Your blessing be more,
And nothing but happiness come through your door!
Sunday, May 10, 2009
Happy Mother's Day
Posted by Julie Elder at 6:29 PM 0 comments
Saturday, May 2, 2009
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Monday, April 6, 2009
This guy can really sing...
Performed by Mike Massé and Jeff Hall on 2/2/09 at the Pie Pizzeria in Salt Lake City, Utah
Posted by Julie Elder at 10:21 PM 0 comments
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
"There will come a time when you believe everything is finished. Yet that will be the beginning."
Posted by Julie Elder at 11:13 PM 0 comments
First lady Michelle Obama wore a sparkling yellow-gold sheath dress with matching coat by Cuban-born American designer Isabel Toledo for the inauguration of her husband, a choice many applauded as a cheerful message of hope and a vote for the American fashion industry.
She paired the embellished ensemble with green gloves from J. Crew and green shoes.
President Barack Obama wore a red tie and white shirt with his suit, topped with an overcoat adorned with an American flag pin.
Their daughters were style icons in their own right, with 10-year-old Malia in a double-breasted periwinkle-blue coat with a blue-ribbon bow at the waist, and Sasha, 7, in a pink coat with orange scarf and satin belt, a coral-colored dress peeking out at the hem. Their coats were from Crewcuts by J. Crew.
The fashion industry has anxiously looked to the election of Obama for months, embracing his wife as an emblem and ambassador of modern American style. She has won praise for her penchant for lesser-known designers and bold fashion choices, mixed with her unabashed love for mass fashion from mainstream American retailers.
Posted by Julie Elder at 10:54 PM 0 comments
Mr. President

Making history as the first African-American to become president, Obama took the oath of office with his hand on a Bible used by President Abraham Lincoln, also a former U.S. lawmaker from Illinois, at his first inauguration in 1861.
The excitement surrounding Obama's inauguration reached a fever pitch in the nation's capital, as hundreds of thousands came to participate in the celebrations.
This was such an exciting day for me. My granddaughter Lexie stayed home from school today just to watch this day of history with me. We stayed glued to CNN, afraid we would miss something. She is such a smart young girl, and for her age she completely understood the importance of this historical day. When they took a break Lexie and I fly off to go shopping. We had only 1 hour. She bought two pair of pants, and I bought some cute shirts and we bee lined it for home. We walked in the door just in time.
What a beautiful day, today was. My heart my mind, my soul has been touch in such an amazing way, its almost hard to describe. All I know is that I feel happy,in such a unspeakably way. May God bless our President, and may God bless our country.
Posted by Julie Elder at 9:50 PM 1 comments
Monday, January 19, 2009
President-elect Barack Obama - On the eve
![]()
WASHINGTON - On the eve of his inauguration, President-elect Barack Obama visited wounded troops at a military hospital, helped paint a wall at a shelter for homeless teens and paid tribute to the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. on the civil rights leader's national day. He said there can't be "idle hands" at a time of national hardship and pledged to make the government do its part.
Posted by Julie Elder at 11:40 AM 0 comments
Sunday, January 18, 2009
Wednesday, January 14, 2009
At next week's inauguration

One of the perks of being the Commander-in-Chief is getting to ride in the back of a presidential limousine. And while certain presidents have had hand-me-down chariots, President-Elect Barack Obama is set to get a brand-new, high-tech model.
Looking much like a standard Cadillac DTS stretched to the limits, Obama's new ride is an altogether different beast, with the highest levels of protection, technology and luxury a presidential limo has ever seen.
Posted by Julie Elder at 9:51 PM 0 comments
Joshua's Mother with baby Luke
My son-inlaw Joshua lost his mother
this past Sept to Cancer. I know he must
really miss her. She spent a few weeks
with the kids after Luke was borne.
It is hard filling her shoes. She was
so special.
Posted by Julie Elder at 10:35 AM 0 comments
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
Beautiful Pictures of Bucks
There where three big bucks by the side of the road. Tim came home to get me, so I could see them. They where so big and beautiful.
Posted by Julie Elder at 3:53 PM 0 comments











